I Survived Eating Pufferfish

I was extremely busy last night and crashed when I returned to my hotel.  It’s physically draining to be running around all day, hurrying up, stopping, waiting, springing into action.  Tomorrow night will be a very busy day for me as the most important dignitaries arrive here in Busan for the APEC Summit.  To read all about the APEC Summit and the goings-on here in Busan, visit http://www.apec.org/ or http://www.apec2005.org/.  The latter site goes into much more depth about what’s happening now here in Busan than what I could describe in a single blog entry.  It is quite an exciting time to be here in Busan.  I’m amazed to be on the front lines watching the action and advance preparations unfold.  I’m not a spectator, mind you, but I am watching while I work hard doing my small bit to make sure the show goes on smoothly.  The big show, the APEC Economic Leaders’ meeting, is yet to come on November 17, 18, and 19.  I will be here all the way through the Summit and will watch the last major plane fly away a few days later.
Yesterday I tried “bokguk,” or pufferfish soup.  The pufferfish, also known as the blow fish, is a spiny creature that blows itself up into a balloonish shape when it is frightened by potential predators.  The defense mechanism is one way for it to appear larger than life, scaring away the predator.  The pufferfish is also poisonous, secreting a poisonous toxin intended to kill its predator.  Many Americans know that Japanese enjoy eating pufferfish, better known in Japanese as “fugu.”  Stories occasionally come out of Japan claiming that someone died from eating “fugu,” typically caused by the improper preparation of the “fugu” dish.  In Japan, chefs receive extensive training on preparing “fugu” properly, removing the poison glands so that the puffin fish meat remains untainted.  It is considered a delicacy in Japan.

I did not realize that Koreans also eat pufferfish, although this fact makes perfect sense since Busan is just a few hours by boat off the coast of southern Japan.  In Korea, pufferfish is not generally considered a delicacy, and here in Busan, numerous shops serve the fish in a soup for about 5,000 Korean won (about $5.00).  The soup includes bean sprouts and chives and can be served either spicy or mild (depending on whether you want to eat it with red pepper paste.  It is typically served with rice and a variety of panchan, or side dishes.   The pufferfish meat is cut into large chunks and served in the soup.  One typically eats every part of the fish except the head, organs, and spine.  The meat is delicious.  Served fresh, the taste and texture do not taste like fish at all.  To use an overused cliche, the meat tastes more like chicken.  (Actually, it tastes more like frog leg.)  Perhaps best of all, the pufferfish has so few bones that it is very easy to eat. 
I’ve wanted to try “fugu” ever since I first read about it when I was a teenager.  Perhaps I’m crazy wanting to eat something that kills some people (I think the victims are typically children or the elderly).  I have no desire to eat live octopus, which here in Korea the cephalopod is occasionally known to kill an unwary diner if the struggling animal lodges itself in the diner’s throat and suffocates the diner, as happened to an unfortunate Korean man in the past year.  I personally think it’s cruel to eat live animals and would rather that my food not move on my plate while eating it.  I have the same apprehension whenever my wife’s family eats “drunken shrimp,” a Chinese delicacy featuring live shrimp soaked in alcohol.  I just cannot bear to eat an inebriated shrimp starting up at me with those big black eyes, as if to say, “Hey dude, surf’s up!”
According to Wikipedia, all species of pufferfish off the coast of Korea are considered poisonous.  It mentions a hilarious episode of “The Simpsons” in which Homer Simpson eats pufferfish and is mistakenly told he has just 24 hours to live.  Like Homer Simpson, I too ate pufferfish and lived to tell about it.  Perhaps more daringly, I ate pufferfish at a hole-in-the-wall restaurant I’m sure is run by a Korean family as a small business.  I’m positive the cook did not attend professional pufferfish culinary training.  Well, I survived anyway.  Will I try it again sometime?  Oh, I suppose I will, depending on the occasion, now that I know how delicious it is.  Hopefully next time I will try it at an upscale restaurant, where I would feel more comfortable about how my meal has been prepared.

A different perspective

I puzzled my family tonight.  We bought my son another jigsaw puzzle, and I realized that it has the same puzzle pattern as another puzzle my son has already mastered.  One puzzle features "Finding Nemo," and the other one is a "Winnie the Pooh" puzzle.  They’re both made by the same manufacturer, so that’s why they both have the same puzzle patterns.  After dinner, I psyched both my wife and son out by melding the two puzzles together this evening.  I combined some of the pieces from one jigsaw puzzle with the other, making two different, somewhat surreal puzzles.  At first both my wife and son protested.  "Don’t do that!  That’s too weird," they said.  "Why not?  It’s a challenge!"  I answered.  My son wanted to tear up the puzzles and put them together the "right" way, but I insisted.  Finally, both of them caved in and helped finish them.  They cheered after both puzzles were finished, because they finally saw the value of putting together the puzzles in a new, vividly different way.
 
It was actually really difficult to do this.  Combining parts of two different jigsaw puzzles together into two new hybrid puzzles is actually quite challenging.  I don’t expect my son to do it anytime soon.  It forces you to consider the shape and pattern of both puzzles, seeing both simultaneously and figuring out which pieces fit best in shape and artistic value.  The end result is something both strange and intriguing.  The surrealist masters of the canvas, Pablo Picasso, Salvador Dali, and M.C. Escher, among others, realized beauty through abstraction and projected amazing imagery through their art.  I especially value illusions and abstractions because they help me realize that virtually anything can be viewed from more than one perspective.  In the photos section, I posted some of my favorite illusions.  What do you see when you look at them?
 
The jigsaw puzzle incident remains me of something that has really frustrated me for the past few months.  I am facing some serious conflicts with someone who is very different from me.  While I value their perspective, I am growing frustrated by their persistent opposition to my suggestions.  It seems that everytime I suggest something, I can always count on them to provide a countervailing opinion.  I’m sure you probably know someone just like that, someone who seems to think exactly the opposite of the way you do.  I appreciate their input–I really do, because they usually come up with talking points I have not thought about.  However, I am really growing weary of their inflexiblity.  They tend to refuse to see other points of view or show flexibility on their own positions.  Just like my family could not initially see the value in mixing jigsaw puzzle pieces, this person typically imposes their opinion and spends their time trying to persuade me to see their point of view, instead of exploring the value of another perspective.  I tend to move towards agreeing with their opinion because I believe it’s important to be flexible and come to consensus when consensus is possible.  However, at some point my flexibility will end when I become too frustrated, and I too will be recalcitrant.  When that happens, no one will win.

Bambi rocks!

My wife is a huge fan of Korean Actor Bae Yong Jun, arguably the hottest star on this side of the planet (well, OK, perhaps not as hot as Chinese Actress Zhang Ziyi, who’s about to star as the Geisha Sayuri in the December 2005 release of "Memoir of a Geisha").  In fact, today when I came home she was watching the Korean drama "Winter Sonata" starring Bae Yong Jun for the umpteenth time.  She watches it to improve her Korean, she claims.  Ah yes, but what about all the Bae Yong Jun memorabilia scattered around the house?  Partly tongue in cheek, I told her awhile ago I wanted to search for my own star to idolize.  You wouldn’t believe how difficult a task that has been for me.  I just can’t get overly excited about any particular star, whether it be a film or TV star, sports star, or any other star.  I recall a few jaw-dropping cinematic moments, such as when Catherine Zeta-Jones starred in "The Mask of Zorro" or when Cameron Diaz made her acting debut in "The Mask," but I just cannot get too fanatical about any particular star.  Half jokingly, I once said I idolized former Hewlett-Packard CEO Carly Fiorina because she was one of the first women to head a Dow 30 company and tech giant.  Alas, Carly met her demise because she wasn’t a team player and could not turn around HP, and the decidedly solid but uninspiring Mark Hurd took over as CEO of Hewlett-Packard.
 
So I’ve been in search of a star that I can say I truly admire and would love to meet in person.  I found her.  She may not be a star in the same way as Cameron Diaz, but in financial circles she is well known and very well regarded.  She’s someone you probably wouldn’t know unless you enjoy investing and visit CBS Marketwatch.  It’s Bambi Francisco.  Bambi who, you ask?  The one and only Bambi Francisco, that’s who.  Don’t let the name fool you.  She’s awesome.  There is a lot I admire about her, and if you visit her blog and learn more about her, I’m sure you would agree.  She is extremely beautiful, intelligent and successful.  She was founding producer of CNNfn, and she is now the lead writer for technology at CBS Marketwatch.  A latina, she has been amazingly successful in an industry traditionally dominated by men and is a great role model for woman and minorities who want to succeed in business.  In a world dominated by the likes of Peter Lynch and Charles Schwab, it’s refreshing to see Bambi stand out like an angel in the world of finance.  Even more impressive, she is currently pursuing her Masters in Theology at Westminster Theological Seminary.  Thus, she is also someone of strong conviction and faith who focuses on more than just earthly success.  She chose a field of study far different than what she does for a living.  I would absolutely love to read her thesis paper(s).  I hope she publishes them on Google Scholar (she’s also a Google fan).  In late July, she finished the Downieville (California) Bike Race, an absolutely grueling 29-mile bike race (a vertical climb about one mile up, one mile down).  I am extremely impressed by her.  She is very accomplished and well-rounded, yet she is unpretentious, unlike many media stars.  I am positive that she is not married and does not have children.  There’s no way she could do all that she does with a family to nurture!  I searched the Web for a Bambi Francisco fan club, but unfortunately I could not find one.  Well, she definitely has a fan here.  And if anyone asks me which star I would most like to meet in person, I will tell them I would like to meet Bambi Francisco.  And after I tell them why, I’m sure they’ll understand.