With the randomness of a bee

I didn’t get much sleep this weekend because too much happened.  Just seven hours after I said goodnight to my classmates, I woke up and joined a couple Korean coworkers for “Walking at Namsan,” a walkathon sponsored by the Before Babel Brigade to commemorate Earth Day 2005.  Although Earth Day was last Thursday, the event was held on a Saturday to increase turnout.  The event was held at Namsan (South Mountain), the mountain where I hiked a few weeks ago in a vain attempt to visit Seoul Tower.  I didn’t know much about the event other than that it was billed as a seven kilometer “walkathon.”  The “walkathon” turned out to be more of an easy hike than a walk because the paved, seven kilometer trail winds its way around the flanks of Namsam.  Along the way, we ascended and descended several hundred feet up and down the mountainside.  The day was gorgeous—perfect weather for going on a long walk/hike.  We started at National Theater located at the base of the mountain.  About 3,000 people, including many expatriates, joined in the festivities. 

BBB did a fabulous job organizing the event.  We started the day with face painting.  Of course, with my occasionally goofy personality, I couldn’t resist painting my own face.  I stood in line with all the kids and let an artist paint my face.  My female colleagues adorned themselves with painted flowers, but I was too cool for that.  Instead, I asked the artist to paint a single green leaf on my cheek.  After all, I was a leaf among flowers.  (In Asian tradition, a man among women is a “leaf among flowers.”)  The event started with jazzercise-style calisthenics designed to help participants stretch their limbs before embarking on the walkathon.  We needed to stretch, because the walk/hike was much more strenuous than anticipated (at least one unlucky fellow was carried away in an ambulance).  Just before the walkthon, we all released orange and white balloons into the air.  Although this was a nice show of unity, I thought it a bit odd that we would release non-biodegradable, synthetic materials into the air in honor of Earth Day.  It’s not a very Earth-friendly thing to do.

Following the walkathon, we returned to the plaza outside National Theater.  We ate sandwiches provided by Paris Baguette, one of Korea’s premier bakeries.  The BBB gave away a plethora of prizes, including tickets to Jeju Island, dinner packages, and watches.  Alas, my colleagues and I won nothing.  Solid Gold-style disco dancers provided kitschy entertainment.  I much preferred watching the traditional Korean drummers who closed out the event.  An elderly gentleman dressed in street clothes serenaded the costumed drummers with a traditional flute that echoed throughout National Theater plaza.  It was a beautiful, impromptu accompaniment.  All in all, the day was enchanting.  I highly recommend walking around Namsan if you’re planning to stay in Seoul for awhile and enjoy hiking. 

When I came home, I was determined to have a quiet, uneventful night.  I washed our car caked with yellow dust.  I vacuumed and straightened up our house.  I was in the middle of reassembling a baby’s bouncer chair for a friend when I got a phone call from a colleague who just arrived in town.  He wanted to go out for drink!  I just couldn’t say no.  It was Saturday night, and he wanted to get out and see a bit of the town.  It’s been hard for me to sustain a pseudo-bachelor lifestyle night after night, but it’s hard to turn down a good friend.  We went out for a drink at a local pub and enjoyed Guinness and crab cakes.  Both were delicious and brought back memories of dining at the Delaware coast last summer.  In early April when pseudo-bachelorhood began I was determined to exercise more and consume less, but my schedule has not been forgiving.  I know I can’t complain, because what I do is up to me.  Unless you are already actively working out, it’s much too easy to say yes to social activities and postpone exercising.  I have a couple more weeks to redeem myself by getting into the gym.  I am not confident that I will.  But that’s entirely up to me.

I went into work today to help monitor some interior construction.  I worked 12 hours straight with only a couple short breaks for lunch and dinner.  It’s a really easy way to earn good money (I’m paid overtime on Sunday).  I did nothing more than monitor the workers and read a book during down time.  Nevertheless, it was a mind-numbing experience doing virtually nothing for long periods of time.  The experience gave me a chance to observe Korean laborers at work.  I gleaned a couple of observations that may or may not be applicable to Korean culture at large.  Perhaps these insights only apply to the workers I observed.  On the one hand, the workers worked diligently and took care and pride in their work.  They painted, stained, polished, and repeated these processes over and over again until they were satisfied with their work.  They were very engrossed in what they were doing and didn’t mind contorting their bodies to get the right angle to finish the job.  Their craftsmanship was impeccable.  On the other hand, I could not figure out any rhyme or reason to their work methodology.  Much like bees appear to move randomly from flower to flower during pollination, these workers jumped around as they worked.  They would paint one corner of a wall and then move across the room and paint some more.  They cleaned one window but did not clean the others.  My Korean language skills are not advanced enough to understand their conversations, so I could not ascertain whether there was a method to their work.  At the end of the day the work was finished, but I think that if they had been a bit more methodical they would have worked more efficiently.

Meeting up with old friends

On Friday evening two of my fellow classmates from the University of Washington MBA program met up with me and a few of my colleagues for dinner.  We met in Itaewon at Santorini, a great Greek restaurant in Seoul.  I haven’t seen my classmates since we all graduated in a big auditorium on campus back in June 2003.  Time has been kind to us.  We all look a little older and a lot less like the students that we were.  I guess we’re professionals now.  We celebrated our program’s rise to the top 20 in the MBA rankings (#18), happy to know that we all got in when it was a hidden gem and are now reaping the benefits of being alumni at a program on the rise in the MBA pantheon.  One of my classmates met today with 12 Korean students newly admitted to the UW MBA program.  Would I have been admitted now that the program is a lot more competitive?  I’ll never know, but I’m glad I was a student there and made the most of my experience.  They were happy too they attended the program.  We reminisced about the good ol’ days when we all studying in infamous “Balmer High,” a masterpiece of Stalinist architecture, when the building was too hot and the wireless Internet connections were too spotty.  It was great to see them and catch up with them.  Both now have good jobs working for two of Korea’s largest chaebol, or Korean conglomerates.  Of the five who went to school with me, three work for chaebol here in Korea, one works for a chaebol in San Diego, and one teaches English at a hagwon, or private language institute.  I want to catch up with all of them while I am here.

My classmates had never eaten Greek food before, and I have not had Greek since I left Washington, D.C.  One would assume that I would eat with Korean friends at a Korean restaurant, but they were glad to try something different than the usual Korean bulgogi or bibimbop.  We enjoyed the souvlaki and a couple bottles of delicately dry but overprice Australian wine.  The restaurant did not have my favorite Greek appetizer, dolmathes (stuffed grape leaves), nor did I see avgolemono soup on the menu.  I enjoyed it nonetheless and will return often.  I absolutely love Greek food.  Greek food is the one type of ethnic food I think I could eat every day.  I haven’t tested that theory, but if I were to eat just one food every day for two years, Greek would be it.

On Friday a few celebrities stopped by the office en route to the states.  I met Comedian Cheong Byeong Don, who often performs on MBC (Munhwa Broadcasting Company) television.  He was on television tonight, in fact.  I heard that "Bi," one of Korea’s most famous pop singers, also passed through on Friday.  Meeting famous people is one of the fun aspects of my job.  Bae Yong Jun, Korea’s most famous movie star, visited a couple years ago before I arrived.  I often do not know the person because they’re famous Korean personalities, but I love to watch the faces and reactions of my Korean coworkers when they come for a visit.

Quiet gives way

Another quiet night at home was naught to be.  I was planning to go straight home, but those plans abruptly ended when I drove home with a couple of male colleagues.  One wanted to stop for some fast food.  At the drive-thru, I caved in and ordered a meal too, as did my other colleague (I was planning to eat leftovers).  Here we were, three guys ordering junk food.  Burgers, fries, and super-sized soft drinks.  “Don’t tell my wife!” pleaded one of them, relishing the opportunity to sneak forbidden food.  Of course his wife is right—we really shouldn’t be cramming 1000 calories and mega-grams of fat into our bodies at dinnertime.  But we couldn’t help consuming this guilty pleasure.  Forget about going into the restaurant to eat at a booth.  It’s a “guy” thing for three guys to order take out and hit the road munching on burgers and fries.  I dropped off one colleague, and the other joined me at home so we could consume the evidence. 

 

We suddenly realized that his wife had invited me to join them for dinner tonight.  My colleague called his wife and said sheepishly, “Um honey, we’ll be over in about 20 minutes.  What’s for dinner again?”  Here we were, two guys who’d just consumed a gut-busting meal having to cover their tracks because we’d forgotten someone was going to cook us a nice meal.  I went over to his house with a full stomach and proceeded to eat a little more.  The food was delicious, and somehow I found some room in my stomach to eat more.  We had a great time talking about life and about the joys and perils of bachelorhood (the subject of sneaking junk food did not come up).  We talked about how my family is doing in China.  We talked about getting together more often for dinner.  This may be partly out of pity for me as a malnourished bachelor who has to forage in the refrigerator because he’s either not interested in cooking or is tired of having the same leftovers three days in a row.  Perhaps it’s because I provide riveting conversation.  Then again, maybe not!

 

After I returned home I noticed a light on at the home behind us.  The new neighbors have finally arrived from Washington, D.C.!  We met them while we all lived in the D.C. area, and they finally arrived here.  The husband will work with me.  He just finished spending about 20 weeks learning Korean at the same institute where I studied.  I’m glad they’re our new neighbors.  They’re great people, and their son is about the same age as my son.  They will make great playmates come summertime.  I knocked on their door to say “hello,” and they invited me in for coffee!  When my family arrived in Seoul, we were in no shape to entertain guests.  Yet here they were inviting me in for coffee and biscuits.  I should be the one giving them hospitality, not the other way around.  I invited them to come over tomorrow and borrow some toys so their son will have something to play with until their household goods arrive.  I enjoyed seeing them again.  The coffee was delicious. 

 

It’s nice to be back home in front of my computer writing this story.  At 10:30 p.m. I finally had a chance to settle in for some peace and quiet.  I also have a bit of a stomach ache.  I wonder why.